F-Bomb Free Blogging

swearing Swearing does not shock me – it just turns me off. I don’t feel the same way about those who occasionally swear when the word fits the situation. And, I don’t feel the same way when I am reading a book or watching a movie and a character being true to their character swears.  Provided children aren’t present I may swear when I stub my toe but I’m authentic online and I’m a very practical blogger. The way bloggers communicate and present themselves online is important, and as I want my content to be read by as wide an audience as possible, I don’t curse in my blog.  How about you?

Freedom to express yourself is what blogging is all about and I don’t anyone to change their language to suit me.  I don’t witness swearing in business blogs or in professional blogs.  But I am curious about what has prompted the increase in swearing in personal blogs.

Unsurprisingly, in most if not all cultures swearing stems from the practice of the kind of magic rooted in the belief that some words had the power to bless and other words had the power to curse.  Swearing began as blashemy and came to include “bad” words for private body parts and bodily functions.

In the Western, English-speaking world, people from every race, class and level of education swear. In America, 72 percent of men and 58 percent of women swear in public. The same is true for 74 percent of 18 to 34 year olds and 48 percent of people who are over age 55 [ref]. Numerous language researchers report that men swear more than women, but studies that focus on women’s use of language theorize that women’s swearing is simply more context specific. — How Swearing Works

What’s appealing about using cuss words as opposed to any other words in any language? Swear words are usually followed by exclamation points so does preferring their use have anything to do with:

  • the sounds of the words themselves?
  • the shock value factor?
  • or something else?

Swear words are emotionally charged and can achieve effects that makes them powerful words. When we vent and utter powerful words we feel powerful.

swearing Most children do tend to do what their parents do, regardless of what their parents tell them to do. Every generation make its mark by adopting different preferences and standards in language, clothes, music, etc. from the generations that have gone before. Youth particularly think swearing is a demonstration of bravdo but that fades away as they age.

When the personal bloggers  of today have school age children, who can read their parents’ internet communication streams and follow their digital footprints it will be interesting to see what happens.  How many will think their mommies and daddies, who swear like proverbial sailors in their blogs are cool and will emulate them? Or will there be the predictable backlash when that generation seeks to make its mark in the blogosphere?

What’s your response to swearing in personal blogs? Does it put you off reading them and subscribing to them?  Are you into F-bomb free blogging?

A tip of the hat to Jay.me – Art & Stuff: digital paintings and sketches.

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Blogging: Comment Baiting
Blogging: Attracting More Readers
Encouraging blog readers to comment
How to form blog centered relationships

Blogging: Comment Baiting

There are many ways that you can encourage your readers to comment. The way you structure your posts can have the effect of drawing out comments. This can be achieved by using a question in the title and/or question(s) at the end of the posts as well. You can also make reference to being interested in hearing reader feedback in the body of the post.

Comment baiting example

Title: Is _________ a helpful blogging tool?
I have been using a ___________ for several months now and find it to be quite helpful with my blogging. I have only noticed two small things I’m not keen about and I will be discussing these in my review below. I’m really interested to hear what you readers have to say about your experience with ________.

    [body of post goes in here]

At the end of your post ask Discussion questions:

  • Have you used _____?
  • Did you have any problems with it?
  • Is there anything else you would like to share about ___?

The Do’s of Comment Baiting

  1. Do your titles and subtitles encourage comments?
  2. Does the text in your posts encourage comments by stating you are looking for reader feedback?
  3. Do you blog on controversial subjects? Controversy sparks discussion too but if you go this direction then:
    (a)  Be well informed about your subject and conversant with all points of view on your subject;
    (b)  Be honest and do not give into the temptation to distort truth for your own purposes. Do not falsify facts, do not present a few facts as the whole story, do not present tentative findings as firm conclusions.
    (c) Use sound evidence to explain and support your ideas. When using evidence, be sure not to take quotations out of context, not to juggle numbers or statistics, and not to present unusual cases as representative examples. Use sources of information that are objective and qualified and link to them appropriately.
    (d) Employ valid reasoning and avoid such fallacies as making hasty generalizations, asserting causal connections where none exist, using invalid analogies, and pandering to passion or prejudice.
  4. Do you conclude your posts with a question for reader discussion?
  5. Do you answer comments you receive promptly and individually?
  6. Do you comment on the posts of bloggers who have commented on your posts?
  7. Do you backlink to your readers’ posts in your own posts?
  8. Do you use a Recent Visitors widget and/or a Top Commenters widget?
  9. Do you promote your posts throughout social networks to keep your readers aware of when you publish new posts?
  10. Do you provide RSS and/or atom feeds and encourage subscriptions?
  11. Do you provide  readers offer updates by email and encourage subscriptions?
  12. Do you offer newsletters and encourage subscriptions?
  13. Do you have a forum?
  14. Do you conduct reader polls and surveys?
  15. Do you encourage your readers to become guest authors on your blog?

The Dont’s of Comment Baiting

Activities to avoid as they can be perceived as being “spammy” are:

  • begging for comments and/or followers on forums;
  • posting into forum threads or leaving comments on blog posts revealing you had nothing meaningful to add to the discussion, which in return reveals you are an attention seeker who is inclined to being “sneaky”;
  • and/or flooding shoutboxes and message boxes in social networks with invitations to visit your blog.

Extraordinary comment baiting -> Dont’ ever try this unless you can handle it as well as raincastoer does. If you click this mummified fairy remains link there are over 2,000 comments so it will take awhile to load.

Related posts found in this blog:

A Comment Policy for your Blog
Blogging: Attracting More Readers
Encouraging blog readers to comment
How to form blog centered relationships

Internet Access Blockouts Costly and Futile

Blocking internet access has been a common government tactic used to censor information and opinion flow.  Several countries come to mind but China, Iran, and Saudi Arabia are believed to extend greater censorship over the net than any other countries in the world. What the most recent blockout in Egypt demonstrates is that internet censorship leads to innovation. Use of Facebook by users from Egypt has surged following the restoration of Internet service to the country.

egyptInterent access blocked in Egypt

Due ongoing protests, Egyptian president Mubarak ordered a shutdown of all Internet access for five days, from January 28 to February 2, but social media and news continued to flow in and out of the country due to those dedicated to keeping the information flowing.  When Egypt cut off Internet access last month in a bid to quell anti-government protests, Google joined forces with Twitter to create a speak to tweet tool that lets Egyptians “tweet” by telephone.

sphinxMasses of users in Egypt used other technological solutions to access blocked sites such as Twitter, Facebook and Google. The tools have become one of the key technologies Egyptians have relied on to stay connected, communicate with each other, coordinate protests and deliver their messages to the world. The cost of  Egypt’s Internet Blackout – The Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development has come up with a figure of $90 million for the financial cost of the Egyptian Internet blackout. It may be much higher.

China’s surging social-networking market

china flog google logoThe top social-networking service in the world’s biggest internet market was created by graduates of a prestigious university to help students communicate with one another. And it’s not Facebook. Renren.com leads China’s surging social-networking market with more than 160 million registered users.  Competitor Kaixin001.com has more than 93 million.

All the major corporations in China, including telecommunications and media companies, are state owned entities or are majority owned by the state. This exerts a significant level of state influence on how people receive and send information. Chinese government censors monitor the internet and block access to content deemed unacceptable. Facebook and Twitter access are blocked. No such forums are found on Renren or Kaixin social networks.

Interent access blocked in China

The Chinese government is blocking access to searches for the word “Egypt” on social networking Internet sites in China. Sina.com public relations officer Ma Taotao confirms that Chinese searches for Egypt are blocked on its instant messaging site, Sina Weibo.

internet block country flagsBreaking down the internet blocks

A growing number of China’s 420 million interent users are turning to services that connect them to servers outside the country so they can access sites blocked by China’s extensive filtering software, known as the Great Firewall. Most computers connected to the Internet are assigned a unique number, or IP address, to route users quickly to the right destination. AnchorFree’s software assigns an anonymous address that can be traced back only to the company and not to the user.

Accessing blocked sites is possible via VPN (Virtual Private Network) — a network technology that provides constant encryption of all internet traffic regardless of the applications in use. The following 5 free anti-censorship client software tools are the most powerful tools and popular methods used past years, to access the information in the free world from inside the closed society, they are UltraSurf, FreeGate, GTunnel, FirePhoenix and GPass.

The US government has engaged a special email tool to break through the censorship filters of foreign governments in order to deliver news and other information. The federal Broadcasting Board of Governors claimed to have used the email tool, known as Feed Over Email, or FOE, to send HTML links to sites that would otherwise be censored by China’s government.

To use FOE, a user just needs access to an e-mail service hosted outside of a censoring country, and the FOE client. FOE is able to fetch content from censored sites without requiring the user to visit those sites to set up the feed. Once FOE fetches the content, it encrypts it and sends it via e-mail much like an attached file. The user’s client gets decrypts the feed and displays it on the local machine.

Discussion

If the country you lived in blocked internet access would you look for and use workarounds to connect to your blog and your readers?

Bloggers: Are You Still Multitasking?

nowIf you think juggling phone calls, e-mail, instant messages and computer work makes you more effective or productive then several studies say you are wrong.  Their results point in the opposite direction and highlight the fact that the more heavily you multitask the less effective and productive you become. I seems the more multitasking we do the more mediocre the results are.

I have been multitasking most of the time when I’m online for years, presumably so I can get more done.  But when I’m offline I prefer to focus on a single task at a time and I  get more done and make fewer mistakes. When I’m not online I divide large tasks into smaller “chunks” that I work on for about 45 minutes at a time and then I take a short break. This year began cutting back on the multitasking I do while online. How about you?

LeoBabauta’s  How NOT to Multi-task — a guide to working as simply as possible for your mental health peaked my interest and I did some multitasking research. A 2009 study by three Stanford University professors on cognitive control concluded that chronic media multitaskers are more susceptible to distraction.

Ophir, Nass, and Wagner’s study (PDF) is significant in many respects. Research in media multitasking is in its early stages, although in recent years, media multitasking has become an increasingly popular phenomenon because of the development and convergence of many forms of new media and technologies (2). Media multitasking and its inherent mental habits of dividing attention, switching attention, and keeping multiple trains of thought in working memory have significant implications for the way people think, communicate, socialize, learn, and understand the world.

Peter Bregman’s How (and Why) to Stop Multitasking lays out the downside of multitasking and how to break the pattern. He reports, “I lost nothing by not multitasking.”  David Silverman presents the opposing side in  his In Defense of Multitasking.  Silverman believes, “The truth is, we need multitasking as much as we need air.” But what caught my attention were these two points:

The information age wherein people working and communicating on digital devices all day is beingreflected in the stats.  In The Rise of Digital Multitasking [STATS] Ben Parr of Mashable reports according to a new survey from Deloitte, More Americans than ever are multitasking while the watch TV. Multitasking has become a more prominent behavior of U.S. consumers.

Tim Ferriss Guest Lecture at Princeton Q&A

Kicking the multitasking habit

We live in a world where multitasking is commonplace. Breaking the multitasking habit will not be easy but it can be done.  The alternative to multitasking is scheduling blocks of uniterrupted time to work in and then carrying through and getting the work done.  Allow no distraction or interruptions — focus.

  1. Make a to-do list.
  2. Prioitize items on the to-do list.
  3. Map out blocks of time to create a timetable from your to-do list. The time blocks can vary in duration as required.
  4. Assign “chunks” of work to timeblocks.
  5. Start working.
  6. Tune out all distractions.
  7. Turn off your phone.
  8. Shut down your computer.
  9. Focus on what you are doing.
  10. When you feel a need to boot your computer and check your email – don’t do it! Pacify yourself by reflecting on the truth. The email and Tweets will be still be there when you are done.

How a Dream Blogging Job Found Me

dream ladderBy Guest Author, Cynthia of  Wine, Woman and Travel

Like most of you reading this, I have been a huge fan of One Cool Site from the day I found it, it has been an essential resource for taking my blogging to a more professional level. But oddly, I didn’t find this article about dream blogging jobs until just recently, six months after the dream had come true. It made me think my story and strategies might be worth sharing, as it’s a bit of a modern virtual job hunt fairy tale come true.

A change in career

After some years learning about wine, in Sept 2008 I worked my first harvest, cutting grapes in Vosne Romanée, Burgundy. I had been sick to death of the financial industry after 25 years, and that experience was the tipping point; I quit the City and decided to pursue a career in the wine trade. I couldn’t have named the job I was after, but knew I wanted to be in a wine growing region, and do any kind of work that would allow me to learn more, in both vineyards and wineries. I had professional qualifications but no experience in the wine trade, except a week working the harvest and ten days behind the scenes sorting the bottles for a major wine competition.

Beginning to blog

My blog began on a bit of a fluke. Though I had been writing nearly all my life, blogging never occurred to me till a friend wrote to wish me well in the harvest and her message included the fateful words “do send us the link to your blog.” Blog? I scrambled, discovered the website package I’d bought for another purpose included a blog function, figured it out and wrote a few trial entries before I left for France. Every night after a full day’s harvest work, I wrote about what we had done, and how we’d done it, but had no internet connectivity in France, so posted the whole lot when I got home to England. I didn’t write again till the following spring, when I returned to Burgundy to job hunt. Things didn’t quite work out as planned, but I kept those disappointments and frustrations mostly out of the public eye, and instead focussed on writing about the vineyards of Burgundy and travels through France and Portugal throughout the summer and autumn of 2009.

I worked the harvest again in 2009 in Vosne Romanée, and luckily had connectivity so I could post nightly, in real time. Someone, somewhere, googled for harvest reports, found my blog, and posted the link on the chat forum of a very influential wine critic. The link was picked up on three more major wine sites. I was astounded by the hits, thousands of them, and in the back of my mind I thought, there must be some way to leverage this in my job hunt.

I returned from harvest to pack up my house and in the end, I took a flying leap and moved not to France, but to Portugal, to settle in Vila Nova de Gaia and try to find a job in the wine trade here – I love Port, the table wines of the Douro region are brilliant, and Portugal generally is up and coming in the global wine scene. My first priority when I arrived in November 2009 was to start learning Portuguese, and it took time to deal with the sheer logistics of settling into a new country. By February 2010 I felt sufficiently to grips with the basics of life and language in my new country, it was time to focus on the job hunt.

Job hunting

My plan was the classic strategy of research my target trade, figure out what the jobs are and where my skills could possibly fit, and then send out CVs accordingly.

But this being the 21st century, I added a bit of internet activity: I updated an old LinkedIn profile and joined Facebook. These turned out to be critical. Through LinkedIn and one of the groups there, I came across a “webinar” (loathsome word!) about using social media in your job search. The presenter was Neal Schaffer, a consultant who specialises in social networking strategies for businesses.

What struck me was the recommendation to “get them to find you” and sell yourself as a product and brand. In effect, put yourself and all your desirable and hire-able qualities out there on the internet, and get yourself found, just like a company, when someone googles for… fill in the blank with whatever you’re about. He made the point that “outbound marketing” – sending out stuff – doesn’t work well anymore. Think about it: anything in your inbox for which you don’t recognise the sender, you suspect is spam, and probably delete without opening. Instead, he recommends “inbound marketing” – get people to find you via social media, whether it’s a blog, a website, Twitter, your Facebook page or YouTube videos, and then leverage search engine optimisation to get those things found effectively.

BUT: key point: only if you are offering valuable or interesting information and insights might readers get interested in YOU. Posting your CV and begging “please hire me” is not the strategy – it’s about demonstrating the knowledge and skills you can offer, so that someone might think, “I could use some of that.”

Neal also pointed out that of all things, blogs will help you get found on the internet. He said he googled a major corporation by name, and the first half dozen links were to blogs which had mentioned the corporation in the past few days, whereas their own corporate site, being all static content not lately updated, was pretty far down the list on the search returns. Neal went on to describe how to leverage other social media, likening Twitter to a cocktail party, Facebook to the white pages (everyone’s there) and LinkedIn to the Chamber of Commerce (a bit stuffy, but all the bigwigs are there). YouTube, he said, had the second largest search engine after Google; thought provoking if your skills lend themselves to promotion by video.

Better blogging

So, I decided to throw myself into my blog, as a way of demonstrating all the passion and wine knowledge that couldn’t be showcased in my CV. I felt what I had written so far did that to some degree, but now it was time to get professional and deliberate. There was a major wine show in March and I wrote at length about my tastings there – making it clear I was not pretending to be a professional critic, only sharing my findings rather as a friend might say to you, “OMG I had this wine last night, it’s so good, you must try it…” I also arranged to visit a couple winemakers, and wrote at length about those visits in March and April. I hoped my writing would demonstrate a solid knowledge of both winemaking and viticulture, but also my eagerness to learn and share my knowledge about something I find fascinating. Put another way, I had a really good cake, and was now icing it and inviting my reading public to lick the spoon.

Dream job

It worked, and my dream job knocked on my virtual door: I received an email through my Facebook account from one of the members of a major Port wine making family, who said he’d found my blog, loved my writing about the Douro, and his father wanted to talk to me – and I was stunned and delirious to realise I’d just been given the mobile phone number for one of the most important people in the Port trade.

The firm had begun a blog for one of their premier brands, which had had a very strong start during harvest 2009, but had languished a bit since then due to a lack of dedicated focus. They were trying to decide what to do about it, when they found my blog. The combination of the quality of my writing, my clear knowledge, interest and will to learn about wine, and the fact I was on their doorstep here in Portugal, made them think, well, maybe hiring someone free lance to write for us could be a solution. There was no defined job, no want ad, this is not a role I would ever have found via the classic job hunt methods. It was them finding my blog that suggested a possible solution to their nagging concern about what to do with their own blog, and prompted the contact.

When I first met with the joint managing director of the firm, he said, “We know this blog could be huge, but we quite don’t know how to make it huge … Do you know? Do you have ideas?” It took a few months, and I met at least three times with the marketing manager and produced plans for content, readership growth and fitting the blog into the overall marketing strategy.

During that time, I decided to move my own blog onto WordPress. I had been looking for a more robust platform, and I knew I had to learn the technical ropes thoroughly before I could start the professional job, if it were offered me, and decided to work the learning curve on my own site, not theirs! TimeThief helped me in the WordPress forums, which led me to One Cool Site Blogging Tips. I cannot tell you how many days I spent here last May, June and July reading all I could, and learning both the technicalities and larger possibilities of blogging.

The fact I was able to demonstrate technical knowledge and formulate plans for promotion and marketing through social network tools made all the difference, I think, and we came to agreement. I re-launched their blog in July 2010 and by October we had increased and stabilised readership at a level 4 times higher than it was before the re-launch.

So, I am writing (which I love) about something I love (Port wine), and my time is divided between the spectacularly beautiful vineyards of the Douro, as well as the wineries, tasting rooms, lodge and my own humble home-desk, here in Vila Nova de Gaia. Dream job.

It can be done, and good luck to all of you who are going for it!
My own blog about wine, food and travel, can be found at
Wine, Woman and Travel
See also: Graham’s Port blog

Futher reading and photo credit: Are You Ready For Your Dream Job?